The Soulmates From Hell Podcast

SFH S1 E4: What is Trauma Bonding

January 07, 2021 Magda Gradowa Season 1 Episode 4
The Soulmates From Hell Podcast
SFH S1 E4: What is Trauma Bonding
Show Notes

Never good enough, always the one to blame, always the one to feel responsible for the hurt. Comparisons, the push and pull dynamic, silent treatments. Good times, bad times, good times, bad times, bad times, bad times… Breadcrumbs of love. Accusations, passive-aggressiveness, playing a victim, false promises. Taking the blame for a feeling of hope things will change, good times, walking on eggshells… 

Sounds familiar? Welcome to trauma bonding. Whoever thinks it’s easy to ‘just leave’ has probably never experienced a bond formulated on familiarity brought from a childhood. When you confuse emotional abuse with love.  Associating disrespect, belittling, and control as signs of love and care. 

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